I said a long time ago I wasn't going to apologize for any lapses, so instead, I'll just THANK YOU for sticking with me and for reading. ☺
Today's post is going to be more introspective than informative. So, if you're looking for a play-by-play life update, a new recipe to try for supper tonight, or a guide to all the awesome things KC has to offer, you'll probably need to wait till a later post...or you could just read this one, anyway. ☺
I recently took a trip back to "the good life;" more specifically, Lincoln, NE. (Calm down - I'm not saying life isn't good in MO - it just says "the good life" on the NE state signs...also, it's true.)
The trip started with a baby shower for a couple former coworkers and quickly developed into a fun-filled, action-packed 24 hours...which actually consisted mostly of "catching up" over food and/or drink. (Lincoln friends - please don't be offended if this trip didn't include visiting YOU. Will hope to catch you on a future one!)
|Some of the "food and/or drinks" pictured here.|
A brown-bag lunch packed just for me? Be still my heart. ♥
The introspective piece that came of all this - which was mostly developed over the 3-hour journey home - is this:
It was very refreshing to go to a place I am so familiar with and spend time with people who I am also so familiar with...and who are familiar with me and who I am.
Here's why (I think):
As much as I love meeting new people, exploring, building relationships, and trying new things, it's sometimes very exhausting! Even though I'm more of an extrovert than introvert, there's a large part of me that cherishes the familiarity and ease that comes with established relationships. Being able to "pick up where we left off" and already know background/"getting to know you" details makes sharing life happenings much easier. And knowing the path someone has taken to get where they are makes for a unique, deeper perspective on current situations.
If I wanted to be poetic about it, I'd explain it this way:
There are many, many people who have played important roles in various chapters of my life. You could even say they helped write some of those chapters. It fills my bucket when those same people are anxious and excited to read the new chapters I am, and have been, working on. Some prefer a summary, others want to read every word. Either way, they're more interested in continuing to read than just putting the book down because it doesn't include their name as often as it used to.
I think I've taken that analogy as far as it will go, so I'll say it this way:
Friends are awesome - new and old. But when distance separates you on a regular basis, old friends have the power to show how much they truly care by the effort they put into maintaining the relationship. This doesn't mean calling every week, writing occasionally, visiting, or even texting every so often. It could mean all those things and more, but it doesn't have to. What means the most is the genuine care and interest shown in what's happened during your time apart, no matter how long it's been. As I write this, I'm realizing this is also true for new relationships. What sets the old ones apart, though, is the understanding the two parties have of each other that only comes with time and shared experiences.
Anyway, it was a really great trip, and I'm thankful to have had the opportunity to make it. I've been asked if going back makes me miss Lincoln more and/or makes me sad. There was probably a time in my life (in the first few pages of the KC chapter - ha) when I would've said, "Yes." This time, though, the answer was, "No." I was more glad than sad. I was glad to have so many people I wanted to visit...and so many who were excited for me to visit! That may sound a little conceited, but I don't mean for it to. It's just nice to be "wanted" by so many in such a short amount of time, I guess ("I want you to want me..."). I was glad for my time in Lincoln - past and present. I was glad to spend time with several people who had a large impact on my life then and who care so much about what's happening in my life, now. I was glad to be reminded of how easy it is to go back...and I was glad to get home to KC. ☺
Speaking of - I'm excited to share some of the awesome things we've been doing in and out of the house! Will hope to be able to share sooner rather than later, this time!
|This girl warms my heart. She's so genuinely funny and cares so deeply about those she loves. |
I just love spending time with her!
|He isn't embarrassed to greet me with a huge hug in the middle of his school lunchroom. |
I think that says a lot about this handsome, growing-up-too-fast guy. ☺
My most favorite (or, at least, the one I was most excited about)?
|The stoneware deep dish pie plate! |
I grew up using my mom's, but it had since been discontinued (happens every so often when they change stoneware glaze colors), and I'd been patiently waiting for them to bring it back - hooray!
Let me know if you'd like any for YOUR kitchen! I'm offering a 10% discount on any new products ordered this month.
Also - check out (and like!) my PC Facebook page (Kensy Byers - Pampered Chef)!
Tell all your friends! ☺